You can’t see anything properly while your eyes are blurred with tears. You can’t, in most things, get what you want if you want it too desperately: anyway, you can’t get the best out of it. ‘Now! Let’s have a real good talk’ reduces everyone to silence. ‘I must get a good sleep tonight’ ushers in hours of wakefulness. Delicious drinks are wasted on a really ravenous thirst. Is it similarly the very intensity of the longing that draws the iron curtain, that makes us feel we are staring into a vacuum when we think about our dead? ‘Them as asks’ (at any rate ‘as asks too importunately’) don’t get. Perhapscan’t. . C.s. Lewis
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The quote “Them as asks” refers to the idea that when one is in love, when one is in need of something and the other person is not there to help them, they won’t help them at all. They do everything possible to deny their own feelings and desire. Someone who is in love with someone else will stay away from them and avoid them completely, even if we want to be with them more than anything else. This quote suggests that we should not get so attached to what we want that we will go into a state that consumes us and makes us do things that we don’t want to do.

Source: A Grief Observed

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